is it so wrong of me that i don’t want to have children? my family act as if i have done a huge diservice to them by choosing not to breed….
i just don’t see the benefit of it….
here are my pros and cons
continuing the family name
maternal instinct will have been sated
get to teach and watch them grow
can’t leave them at home to go on holidays or for dinner
no guarantee they will grow up being well behaved with common sense
painful (labor – i mean reallywho wants to do that???
our children are not likely to have great health (heart problems, dementia, stroke, stomach ulcers and possibly diabetes are all in our family history)
every parent you know telling you how to raise them
continaul family connection because they will always want to see the grand kids
the world is bad enough now – imagine in 20 years time when my kids will be wanting to buy houses and get married how impossible it will be for them.
you get my drift anyway – this is why i don’t want to have kids….but i am the bad person for not wanting them…maybe it is selfish of me – but maybe itshoudl be my choice to be selfish for once in my life – espeically about something as huge as a baby